When we tithe joyfully (with gratitude for all we have), we acknowledge that we will always have everything we need, then our tithe brings back a multiplied returns. The rule of thumb is a 10 fold return. It is important to not ‘expect’ a return – in other words don’t sit there and wonder where your return is. You simply tithe and know that sometime, somewhere…your tithe will be returned back to you.

Tithing from a place of ‘knowing’ that all your needs will be met, releases you from the place of ‘expecting’ or ‘needing’ a return. If you have unlimited resources, would you spend your time looking for a return? Probably not. If you can tithe from a place of feeling like you had unlimited resources, and are grateful that you can share – your tithe will be returned to you.

Here’s one’s testimonial on how they took steps towards easier tithing:


If tithing is new to you, it may take some time to get used to simply giving money back to where you are spiritually fed. This is not the case for everyone, but it has been a huge step for me. I was completely new (and initially suspicious) to the concept of tithing. Giving money away, when I could barely make ends meet, did not make sense to me.

At first. I needed to gently release money. I had to learn to let go. Yes, I had to learn to give. I started by giving whatever I ‘felt’ I could give, back to my spiritual center. I understood, at the time, that in order to keep the center going, we all needed to pitch in and help pay the bills. It cost money to rent the hall. Our spiritual director was giving of her time and energy.

She deserved to receive an income. These were reasons I gave myself for tithing, in the beginning.  It was hard to give when I believed I did not have enough. So called ‘logic’ and conditioning said I was insane to do such a thing. After awhile, instead of just giving whatever I ‘felt’, I chose to be more conscious of where I spend my money. To start small, I chose to consciously give 1% of my gross income, then 3%. Sometimes, depending upon the amount I receive that week, I am able to give 10%.

This will be concluded next week.




Tithing is the spiritual practice of graciously giving 10% to where we are spiritually fed. Its purpose is to create an awareness of Spirit as our One Source, and demonstrates our understanding of abundance. If this is a new concept to you or if you are struggling financially at the moment, this may trigger a lot of trepidation. Rather than face those fears and deal with them, it is common to just reject the idea of tithing as ‘stupid’ or ‘unreasonable’.

Be aware if these thoughts occur to you. Many successful, spiritually-grounded people use this practice as a way to continue the flow of abundance in their lives. While it is true, there are people who are financially successful who do not tithe – time and again, tithing creates a flow and sense of security in our lives that cannot be ignored.

Here are some ideas to help ease you into the spiritual practice of tithing.

When you operate out of abundance, you are recognizing that the universe is unlimited in its supply of anything, and everything you want (or desire) is ready and willing to be provided to you.

There is no lack in our world. The only place that lack or poverty exists in, is in your mind. The Universe lacks nothing. Everything is available in a never-ending, inexhaustible supply. This includes money and riches.

One of the most powerful ways to show the Universe that you are abundant, is by tithing. Tithing allows the energy of money to continuing flowing, and it helps release resistance around the feeling of ‘not having enough’ money. You can’t be a ‘taker’, if you are a giver. Our Universe is designed around the concept of contribution and giving.

As you GIVE so shall you RECEIVE. You must become a giver. Most of the richest and ultra-successful people (throughout all time) have been big givers. It’s the whole idea of sowing and reaping. And in many cases, it’s not just a matter of tithing, but also a matter of relaying knowledge – namely, financial knowledge. Searching online for wesite information oriented around church charity, debt and credit   matters – like negotiating with debt collectors—can show you how to minimize your debt and maximize your wealth. Go online to learn more.

Ultimately, giving is the cornerstone of any good plan for success and wealth. Just as with giving, many of the richest most successful people throughout time have understood the power of tithing

Many are of the personally belief that tithing is the single greatest secret to success & personal fortune, one will ever uncover!

A tithe is simply the first 10% of all your income, given to the source of your spiritual support or instruction. Tithing is not a charity and it’s not about giving to a good cause – that’s giving. Tithing should go to the source of your spiritual support. This is a very important distinction to make. Your tithe belongs to the true source of all abundance – the Universe. Where ever you receive spiritual enlightenment is where you should tithe.

Many people were taught that we must tithe to our church, and that we must tithe 10% of our income. However, many disagree with that. Not everyone who goes to church receives spiritual enlightenment from the church, and not everyone goes to church. Many also do not agree with the 10% rule – unless you can afford it. Tithing any amount shows the Universe that you are abundant, and will It will respond by giving you more abundance. ..10% or more, can be applied at a later date.




This stewardship reflection is by Leisa Anslinger, an author and co-founder of Catholic Strengths and Engagement Community (CSEC).   Leisa wrote this for Stewardship leaders, but I think it is helpful to all of us.

I have been greatly influenced by the wisdom of Bishop Sylvester Ryan, bishop emeritus of Monterey, California, who often reminds us that stewardship and evangelization are two sides of the same coin. That coin is discipleship. Forming people who are aware of their call to grow as disciples is a dynamic and life-giving process. It can also be challenging, as is the call itself. Jesus’ way is one that places demands upon us, and yet, as the United States bishops’ pastoral letter on stewardship notes, it is also a way of joy and a life filled with meaning.   Let us briefly explore these three interrelated calls.

Stewardship: We are Christian stewards because we are followers of Jesus Christ.  As the bishops’ pastoral indicates clearly, “Stewardship is an expression of discipleship with the power to change how we understand and live out our lives.” Through our lives as stewards, we embrace Christ’s self-giving, sacrificial way of life.

Discipleship: While we are drawn into Christ’s Body through the waters of baptism, many of us grow into a living relationship with Christ over many years. Once that relationship has been ignited, or re-ignited, people’s lives are shaped by their faith and desire to grow in love of God and all that we believe as Christians.   This process of ongoing conversion takes place within the community of faith. As leaders, we have the opportunity to create an environment in which those who are already on the journey of discipleship recognize their call to reach out to others, building bridges to living faith.

Evangelization: When we are in love, we cannot help but share that love with others. That is the essence of evangelization. We share the love of God as good stewards of our faith, and our sharing has the potential to draw others into a new or deeper relationship with God in Jesus Christ, as disciples and stewards. Keeping this interrelationship in mind as we develop stewardship processes and initiatives helps us lead the people we serve to a joy-filled, meaningful way of life.






Our much-anticipated Mass at the Beach will take place next Sunday, October 16 at the Junior Seau Beach Amphitheatre (Band Shell) on The Strand at the foot of the pier.

The venue will open at 9:30 a.m.  There will be seating on the floor of the amphitheater for 1,000 people and the bleachers will be available for anyone who wishes to sit there.

A concert with Santiago Fernandez will start at 10;30 a.m. and last approximately one hour.  Please see the back page of this bulletin for more information about Santiago.

Our Bilingual Mass will begin at 12:00 noon.  We will have a liturgy aid available rather than a missal and hymnal.

We are providing a nice selection of food trucks (no-host) if you wish to stay at the beach for lunch.  We specifically have chosen a variety of menus that are family friendly and affordable.

You are also most welcome to bring a picnic basket with you as well if that better suits your  needs.

If you are unable to attend our Mass at the Beach, there will be an abbreviated schedule of Masses at the church next weekend.

Saturday in English at 5 p.m. and in Spanish at 6:30 p.m.

Sunday in English at 7:30 & 9:00 a.m.   (There will be no 10:30 a.m., 12:15 p.m. or 5:00 p.m. Masses at the church on October 16.)

As you know, especially with our downtown development, parking can be a bit challenging.

For transportation, you are encouraged to “think outside the box”.  Why not ride in on the Sprinter (along Oceanside Blvd.) or the Coaster (along the coast).  The ride is very affordable and would add another bit of adventure to the day.

We will have a shuttle available from our Parish Center parking lot that will allow transportation for those who are not able to walk the six blocks to the beach.  Please call the office this week to put your name on a list so we can plan for the number of people who will use the service. 

 We will have parish tee-shirts available for sale ($8/each or $15 for two).

The 2016 Honda FIT will be available for you to see.  You can buy a few more raffle tickets or turn in the ones you have.  The drawing will take place after Mass.

STEWARDSHIP AND PUBLIC LIFE: Bringing the Good News to All Creation


With the presidential election upon us, it is more important than ever for mature Catholics to be mindful of their responsibilities to exercise good stewardship over their neighborhoods, communities and society by participation in the public life of our country. Jesus said that we, his disciples, are the light of the world. We must not hide that light under a bushel basket (see Matthew 5:16) or in the privacy of our homes or in a church building. We must let it shine so that all men and women can see it. Stewards understand that living out their faith in public life is part of their responsibility to go into the world and proclaim the Gospel to all creation (Mark 16:15); and that their relationship with Jesus Christ and their desire to please him should inform all of their moral decisions, including how they participate in public life and how they vote.

A Call to Political Responsibility from the Catholic Bishops of the United States. Developed by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, this document continues a tradition by the bishops of encouraging Catholics to use the values of their faith to shape their participation in political life.

How should stewards exercise their responsibilities as citizens? One way of course, is to inform themselves of the political issues of the day and to vote. Voting is literally the least one can do to promote Gospel values in our communities, state and nation. Stewards are not found wanting in this vital area of their stewardship. The teachings of the church help us understand our responsibility to make informed choices about issues that concern our society and world, especially as it relates to peace and justice and the most vulnerable of our sisters and brothers. The bishops of the United States have again provided important guidance through their statement: Forming Consciences for Faithful Citizenship:

It focuses on helping Catholics form their consciences so they can make sound moral judgments about public choices. Visit

Stewards commit to prayer, reflection and discussion among others in their community of faith about how to bring the Gospel to public life. They believe in continued conscience formation and conversion, take the teachings of the Church seriously, and keep themselves informed on the political issues of the day. Stewards also strive to make prudent choices, vote and encourage others to vote. These are just a few of the ways stewards can help bring the Good News to all creation.

Remember, that whatever your political affiliation,  you need to make a decision based on research and PRAYER!



I am not “into” dream interpretation, but I do believe that our subconscious thoughts manifest themselves in our dreams.  With that being said…  I had the strangest dream the other night.

I dreamed that I was attending a college class (in person, not on-line) and had an assignment due.   WAIT!  Was this a dream or a nightmare?

Of course, the assignment wasn’t ready for submission.  I had spent a lot of time on research, et cetera, but had not written THE PAPER.  I’ll be honest with you.  I am a true Virgo and I procrastinate (which literally means “for tomorrow”).  So my dream was pretty believable so far.

I decided to go to class anyway and Face The Music.  It was in one of those big lecture halls.  After everyone was seated, the professor asked the students to bring forward their assignments.  I raised my hand and, with shame on my face, admitted that I did not have the assignment.  I was prepared to be further shamed and humiliated in front of the class.  His response took me off guard.  Rather than pointing out my shortcomings, he gently asked if I had done any work on the project.  I explained to him that I had done all the background work and just didn’t write the actual paper.  He said “I understand that we all get distracted sometimes and I will forgive this.  Go home now, complete the paper, submit it tomorrow, and do better next time.”

When I wakened and thought about the dream, I remembered the Gospel I heard just a few weeks ago about the Prodigal Son.

Remember I keep saying that there are certain lessons we must learn and they’ll keep coming around for us?   The lessons are plain as day—we just need to be cognizant of the signs.

On Saturday, Sept. 9, I attended the presentation on MERCY given by Bishop Emeritus Robert Brom.  He was so inspiring.  He is a very learned man, but is quite charming and told some wonderful stories! During his presentation, he talked about The Prodigal Son.

Then, because it was Covenant Weekend, I attended all five of the English-Speaking Masses on Saturday and Sunday.  Do you remember the Gospel reading?  It was The Prodigal Son!

Clearly, this is an important lesson for all of us.  MERCY.  God, our loving and merciful Father, gives us chance after chance to get our act together.  And when we come to Him day after day “with our assignment incomplete”, He gives us another chance and reminds that He loves us and believes in us.

I remember when my children were young and Rachel was studying to receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation for the first time.  I had an epiphany and from that time on I was willing to admit that, even as a parent, I could be wrong sometimes.  It usually had to do with overreacting about something they did.  I would apologize for the overreaction, ask them for their mercy and understanding,  and  then continue to address the incident.

In the one version of the Act of Contrition, we say “I firmly intend, with your help, to do penance,  sin no more, and to avoid whatever leads me to make wrong choices”.

God wants us to succeed.  He doesn’t care how much money we make, or what car we drive, or how many people we supervise at our jobs.

He wants us to succeed in our lives as good and faithful servants; good people with pure hearts; good people with pure hearts who are merciful to those around them and themselves.  (Sometimes we can be very hard on ourselves.)  Look at the signs all around you.  You are being called to be merciful.  Beginning today.

The Circuitous Path

When my son, Jens, was a little guy, he spent a lot of time with my Daddy—”Papa”.  Papa was a gentle soul.  He taught his grandson how to be a real man but how to maintain his caring demeanor at the same time.

Even though Daddy had retired from a career in the Marine Corps long before Jens was born,  he was a proud Marine the rest of his life.

Jens emulated quite a lot of what he saw in Papa’s example of living.  He considered the ROTC in high school but was snatched up by the track team instead.   BTW, he lettered in the long jump in his sophomore year!  (No, I’m not at all embarrassed to be a proud Mama…)

He graduated from high school and attended a trade school to become an auto mechanic. Even though he’s really intelligent, he knew he wasn’t the academic type but wanted a skill with which he could support a family.

Over the years, he has several times revisited the idea of joining the Armed Services.  Each time, for one reason or another, he has chosen a different path.  Remember I said recently that if you don’t learn the lesson you keep repeating it?

Two years ago, Jens and his then-fiancé moved to the East Coast to live with her parents while she earned a BA.  Well, that was their plan.  She couldn’t get into the college, and the housing arrangement fell apart.  And…

And God had a different plan for them.  They only stayed there for five months.  But during that time, Jens shared a very meaningful relationship with his future father-in-law.  Joe is a career Marine and stationed at the Pentagon.  Joe mentored him in much the same way that Papa did when he was young.

Jens came back to California resolved to join the military.  Because he is now 30, the Marines were not an option, so my boy will be a proud Sailor.  He tested very high on the entrance test and will be trained to be an Advanced IT Specialist.  I’m quite certain that he wouldn’t have done so well if he had joined earlier.

Last weekend, we all had the opportunity to renew our Covenant with God.  This is our time to reassess our commitment to our Faith Journey.  “What do I want out of my relationship with God?”  “Do I HAVE a relationship with God?”  “How can I share my faith, my gifts and talents, with those around me?”

I look at my son’s life journey.  What I see is that he knew all along what he wanted.  He allowed himself to be taken here and there on other paths.  Don’t get me wrong, I truly believe that the circuitous route we take is often God’s plan exactly.  There are lessons to be learned along the way that have led us to this exact place and time.

Don’t be afraid to surrender yourself to God’s will.  I tell people all the time that I don’t have the answers.  But I do know this one: God knows what’s best for us.  Listen. Heed the signs.  They’re there right in front of you.   We so often are sure that we have it all figured out for ourselves and we overlook the obvious prompting of the Holy Spirit.

If you didn’t complete a Covenant last weekend, I encourage you to consider taking the time to do it now.  No one with ever see it except you.  It will be mailed back to you next summer and you will be able to review your commitments.   In two weeks, the Covenant chest will be moved under the back altar where it will remain in the sanctuary all year as a reminder to you of your promises to God.




Don’t Forget To Pray!

I always thought my Mom was a great mother.  She seemed to have such wisdom in how she parented her three daughters.

One day, when I was a parent myself and having a difficult time with a situation, I asked my Mom how she had always managed to know the answers.  She said she didn’t always know the answers; she prayed a lot and did the best she could.

I never asked her what exactly she said when she prayed, but it may have been something like this:

Dear Lord,

Thank You for my children. I know they are a gift from You.  Daily I need Your strength and wisdom to train them in the way they should go.  Give me patience and a joyful heart; let me be an example of Your love and forgiveness.  Thank You, Father, for the honor of being a parent.  Amen.

As I look back on her response, it was great advice for parenting, but also for getting through life.

Take a minute to think about it..  PRAY A LOT AND DO THE BEST YOU CAN.  

I always remind myself that the formal prayers that are written in books were written by people like you and me.  Everyday people with everyday thoughts.

It’s not as much WHAT you pray, but THAT you pray.  It’s including God in your life on a daily basis and having conversations with Him throughout the day.    He’s like any parent, mentor, friend; remember to ask advice and to thank Him for the counsel.   I always have to remind myself that my plan isn’t necessarily God’s plan.


Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred,  let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is dispair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
Where there is sadness, joy;

O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek
To be consoled as to console;
To be understood as to understand;
To be loved as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.


Dear Lord,

Help me remember what a difference it makes when I make time with You a priority in my morning. Awaken me in body and spirit each day with a desire to meet with You and to hear You speak words of affirmation, assurance and wisdom over my heart as I prepare to go into my day. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.


 Dear Lord,

I don’t know who or what will cross my path today. But I do know that You are my Rock and my Fortress. You are my Shield and my Strong Tower. Help me to anchor myself to You today. Teach me how to stand strong in You and choose only Your way today. Help me walk by Your truth and not my feelings.

Help me to embrace anything that comes my way as an opportunity to see You at work and as an opportunity to point others to You.

Thank You that You love me and nothing can ever take that away from me! Even if I fail today and fall short, You whisper Your unconditional love deep into my soul and remind me that Your mercies are new every morning.  That truly amazes me, Lord.

Thank You for meeting with me today. Would You wake me again tomorrow with the same sweet whisper of Your love? I can’t wait to meet with You again. In Jesus’ Name,  Amen.



The Time is Nearer Than You Think

As you read this, I will be out of town with my sister, Sally.  Her husband of 42 years died last spring after a long illness that left him house/bed bound.  Sally hadn’t been able to leave town for over two years and desperately needed to get away.  So, a few months later, we met in Las Vegas for a couple of days.  At the end of the visit, she asked if we could make it an annual trip.  So, now you know my whereabouts.

Sally is three years older than I am and we were always very close growing up.  We even stood up for each other at our respective weddings (only four months apart!).    We had a third sister, Joellen, who was the oldest and she seemed to always be “the odd man out”.

After our daddy celebrated his 80th birthday, we realized that we would one day be just the three of us.  We vowed to work on forging a closer relationship while our parents were still with us.

We met a few times for a Sisters’ Weekend and were well on our way to a renewed and revitalized relationship.   Then, two days after his 85th birthday, Daddy passed into eternal life.  So, our master plan was proceeding “according to plan”.

Then the unforeseen happened.  Joellen developed A.L.L. which is a fatal form of leukemia from earlier  treatment for breast cancer.  She spent seven months in the hospital before she eventually succumbed.  Now our plan went haywire!  It was just the two of us and Mom.  Thirteen months later, we lost Mom as well.  And then there were two.

So, what does this have to do with you?  Have you ever read (or heard of) John Steinbeck’s Of Mice and Men?   The title of the 1937 book came from a Scottish poem written by Robert Burns in 1786 called To A Mouse.  It tells of how he, while plowing a field, upturned a mouse’s nest.  The resulting poem is an apology to the mouse:

    But Mousie, you aren’t alone

    In proving foresight may be vain:

    The best laid schemes of mice and men

    Often go awry,

    And leave us naught but grief and pain,

    For promised joy.

So, while it is critical to be proactive about your life, especially your spiritual life, you can “have it all figured out”, but in the end we don’t know what God has planned for us.

My advice to you (and to myself, of course) is to keep your affairs—temporal and spiritual—in order.  Nurture the relationships in your life.  Maybe someone in your life is now estranged.  Try to build a new bridge.  Even if it’s not the right time for reconciliation, you will be more at peace for having tried.

We all know the parable of the Prodigal Son who was estranged from his father for a long time.   And yet, when he returned home, he was welcomed with open arms.  We believe that this is a true account of what we can expect from Our Father, but wouldn’t you rather come to him as his BFF (best friend forever)?

I encourage you to put as much effort as possible into your Faith Journey.  It is not about just coming to church on Sunday.  It is about the journey to closeness with God—coming to know Him in a way that is only attained through effort.  Be ready for that final encounter;  we do not know the hour or the day.

Stewardship of Our Parishes: Helping Us Grow in Faith

This article was written for the monthly newsletter of the International Catholic Stewardship Council (ICSC) by Leisa Anslinger, author and co-founder of Catholic Strengths and Engagement Community (CSEC). Leisa has visited our parish on several occasions and is a trusted professional in Stewardship.

I have had the privilege this spring of guest-presenting during a pasto­ral leadership class at our diocesan seminary. The first three classes of the semester set the foundation for the remaining topics: the priest as pastor and leader; collaboration with the la­ity; the vision of the parish as the locus or center in which people are formed as disciples, stewards, and evangeliz­ers. I am deeply appreciative of the commitment and genuine desire to lead well that the men, some of whom will be ordained very soon, have dem­onstrated. While I have not been with them for every class, I have witnessed their growing appreciation of the ways in which all the varied elements of parish life fit together.

Being with the seminarians has re­minded me of the complex nature of parish life and how stewarding these elements has direct impact on the way people may or may not grow in faith. When we make adjustments in one aspect of the parish, it will affect other aspects. Hopefully, over time, the adjustments we make will result in deeper conformity to Christ, to holi­ness lived in daily life.

This calls for us to stay focused on the vision and good stewardship of the parish as the place where disciples are grown, where people are drawn to Christ, to live their faith in the dai­ly lives, and to share their faith with others.

Good stewardship of a par­ish requires on-going attention to the spirituality of stewardship, not only at specific points of the year; it requires us to consider parish practices in light of the call to live and grow as stew­ards, to help our people make primary connections between Mass and their daily lives, to understand how stew­ardship is an authentic way to live as disciples of Jesus Christ, and to do all of this in the context of the community of faith.

In what ways is your parish the place where disciples who live as good stewards are grown?


During the last three years, we have made many efforts to provide our parishioners with tools to grow as good stewards and disciples. 

 These include praying the Stewardship Prayer as a Faith Community at every Sunday Mass, posing thoughts for Everyday Stewardship in the weekly bulletin (Barbie’s Corner) and offering the annual Covenant with God (which will be offered again on the weekend of September 10-11).