Making resolutions for a new year is not, in itself, a bad thing. What can be bad is not making meaningful resolutions.
Recently, my daughter-in-law (the wife of my sailor son, Jens) and I co-hosted a Cookie Decorating Party and Brunch.
As we shared the meal, I was saying that I am trying to improve myself. I am trying to learn that not everything must be done my way or even a specific way. There are many people with great ideas and it really is okay if something is not exactly the same every year. Trust me, this is a hard one for me but I know it will take a lot of stress out of my life if I learn to truly let go of things.
My brunch companion was surprised that I would talk about changing myself. The way I see it, I am nowhere near perfect. And it’s probably safe to say that you’re not either. No disrespect intended. I want to be as near perfect as I can be when God calls me home. I at least want it known that I was making my best effort at it. I have a long way to go, but as they say, every journey begins with a single step.
One of the things that I have always enjoyed is researching wise thoughts of those that have come before me.
The following thoughts were recorded by a Shawnee Native American named Techumseh (pronounced te-KUM-see), when he was near-death in 1813. His native name means “Shooting Star” and by his words, I would say that he lived according to his name.
So live your life that the fear of death can never enter your heart.
Trouble no one about their religion; respect others in their view, and demand that they respect yours.
Love your life, perfect your life, beautify all things in your life.
Seek to make your life long and its purpose in the service of your people.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way.
Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
Ralph Waldo Emerson lived during most of the 19th century (1803-82). He wrote many great works of literature that have endured the test of time. I just recently “ran across” this quote that I found to be quite profound:
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
I couldn’t agree with him more. I take his words as a great inspiration to me. I remember about thirty years ago, I had a revelation that I wanted my life to really count for something. I had just started a family and wanted to put every bit of effort into raising good people who could contribute to society when they got older. But I also set out to find one place I could make a difference. Because I had that conscious goal in mind, I have managed to leave some good behind. But the effort must never stop; it should intensify. With each accomplishment, you need to be further encouraged to continue and leave an even bigger footprint. The same should be true of your faith life. Try to deepen your faith and come closer to perfection every day.